Born in 1934
into a family of what was known as the domestic servant class, Victoria
Seymour spent her early years living in a clapboard cottage on the edge
of Chislehurst Common. This wooded area and the gardens of the grand houses,
where her parents worked as cook and gardener, were her playgrounds. Her
two brothers were much older than her, this, and the lack of friends living
nearby obliged Victoria to find her own amusements. The younger of her
two older brothers taught her to read before she went to school and this
generated in her an early love of books and later, of writing short stories
and poems. These occupations compensated for the lack of friends.
The start
of WWII in 1939 heralded inevitable social change, which impacted profoundly
on Victorias childhood. Wartime conscription removed many of the
younger servant class from the employment market and her parents, still
domestics and by then middle-aged, were sometimes called upon to act as
resident caretakers in wealthy homes, whose occupants had fled to find
safety in remote areas. Victoria enjoyed the temporary, luxurious accommodation
and the things that money can provide, such as a well-stocked library.
These high-living
interludes were balanced by long spells in the bare, hard-up family home
on a council estate .The proximity of Chislehurst to London meant that
the terrifying effect of the war on the home front overwhelmed everything
and she says, This left its mark on me, a feeling of always waiting
for the next bomb.
After the
war, in 1948,Victorias mother and father moved from Chislehurst
to a residential job on a farm at Fairlight, near Hastings, as cook and
farm hand. Victoria attended Rye Grammar School from the age of thirteen
to seventeen and nurtured dreams of becoming a journalist.
However,
Victoria married in May 1954, aged 19 and her first child, a daughter,
was born in July 1955; a second daughter arrived in January 1957 and in
December 1969, a son. Victorias married life was one of domestic
obscurity, as she worked from home, assisting her husband with clerical
work. In addition to this, from 1962 onwards, she was a host mother to
hundreds of overseas students. Victoria was suddenly widowed in March
1980; as an old-fashioned, dependent, stay-at-home housewife she was ill
equipped for the single-handed management of a family and large house.
Eventually, Victoria became involved in local voluntary work and this
was the start of her learning to know and love Hastings.
Her eldest
daughter married an Italian in 1977 and lived in Milan, where she taught
English; this grew into a travel/language school, using Hastings as its
base. Victoria became involved in the administration work for the students
and, as numbers increased, she became the company director of her daughters
language school in the 1990s. As a result of the organisational work for
the students studies, accommodation and leisure, Victorias
knowledge of Hastings and its people was broadened, revealing to her the
richness and diversity of the locality.
Victoria
announced that she intended to retire from the language school business
in September 1999; she would soon be 65 and wanted more time for herself.
When asked what would she do with this time she said, Grow better
flowers!
In May 1999,
Victorias family had helped her to buy a computer; she said that
she was feeling envious of all the interest and fun the family seemed
to find on the Internet. It took about three months of patient tuition
and support from her long-suffering children to teach Victoria how to
use her computer. She says, It was so difficult at first, I was
afraid of damaging this expensive contraption, which seemed to have a
mind of its own. I wept tears of frustration at times. By August
Victoria had not only come to grips with her computer-she loved it!
The family
suggested it might be fun to build a Hastings web site, just a few
pages; now the site has over a thousand pages. Victoria was very
keen to take part and after four months of local and historical research,
plus website construction by other members of her family. Hastings.UK
.Net was launched in early December 1999.
Victoria
says, The Internet and our Hastings web site have changed my life,
which I did not expect in my retirement. She is kept busy every
day, answering the sites emails and the Ask Harold questions.
She says, Far from the Internet keeping me indoors as people say
it does, I have been out and about so much these past few years. I have
been involved with a number of organisations and groups and have taken
a part-time, local history course.
One of the
most popular sections on www.hastings.uk.net is the message board; visitors
post notices on varied subjects; recounting memories of happy times spent
in Hastings, greeting old friends or seeking lost family members or details
for genealogical research, In April 2001 there appeared an unusual message,
from Wendy Johnson of Canada, who subsequently sent Victoria a collection
of rediscovered, private 60 years-old letters. These letters were posted
from Hastings to Canada between 1942 and 1955 and they inspired Victoria
Seymour to compile a part-biography of their writer, Emilie Crane. The
book is called, Letters From Lavender Cottage- Hastings in WWII and Austerity.
In her retirement,
Emilie shared a house in Hastings with her two friends, Clare and Edith
and their much-loved cat, James. The almost one hundred letters Emilie
sent to her Canadian cousins were initially of thanks for the food parcels
they had supplied to the Lavender Cottage household in WWII and throughout
the following years of harsh austerity, when food rationing and shortages
became even more severe than during the conflict. The letters also detail
the lively and kind-hearted Emilie Cranes domestic and personal
life and follow the joint fortunes of the three ageing women. Victoria
Seymour has rounded the story by adding 1940s and 1950s national,
local and autobiographical facts. Letters From Lavender Cottage
is a touching, human history with an informative narrative.
Victorias
solitary, book-loving childhood was a good preparation for what she is
doing now. She says, The Internet has brought me email contacts
and knowledge from all over the world and given me the chance of realising
my childhood dream of being a writer And yes, she has also grown
better flowers! Victoria is now working on her next book but the details
of this are not for publication.
Foyles
War, the ITV WWII detective series, was filmed in Hastings;
it stars Michael Kitchen, who plays the title role, Detective Inspector
Foyle. Foyles War is also set in WWII Hastings and uses some of
the locations mentioned in Letters From Lavender Cottage.
Lavender Cottage, then and now
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